Dear dokvjo,

There's nothing wrong with you — it's normal to be interested in a variety of things, regardless of how masculine or girly you might think they are.

Gender stereotypes are just plain false because they're never true for all girls or all guys. It's easy for some people to assume that all guys share the same qualities — they haven't made the effort to learn that each individual has unique characteristics.

There are lots of straight men who are not into cars or team sports but who are into the arts and who sing and dance — Johnny Depp is only one good example!

Bullies often pick on kids who don't fit the social norm at school — kids who aren't the same race or religion as most people in school; who are, or appear to be, lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender; who are "too fat" or "too skinny"; who don't like the same music as other kids or don't wear the "right" clothes; or kids who simply appear to be troubled or different in some way.

If you're feeling harassed at school, you might try talking with an adult you trust. Getting support from friends will also help.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.