Dear kurt1578,

Even though a lot of people have sexually transmitted infections, talking about them can be tough. Here are some tips to help start this conversation:

• Think about all the reasons why you want to talk about sexually transmitted infections with your partner.
• Practice having the discussion without your partner and say the words out loud. What do you want to say? What are all the possible things your partner could say?
• Try to have this talk when you both have time and privacy.
• Remember that your partner cannot read your thoughts. It's important to talk about what you want and how you feel. It's important to listen to your partner, too.
• If you are feeling nervous or embarrassed, tell your partner. Maybe your partner feels the same way you do. Sometimes sex is hard to talk about, and it's okay to admit that.
• Ask how your partner feels about this conversation. Being honest with each other can make a relationship more fulfilling.
• If it's a bacterial infection like chlamydia, gonorrhea, or syphilis, make sure your partner gets tested and treated, too.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.