Dear joeman461,

The majority of men who masturbate can bring themselves to orgasm and ejaculation. There are also men who don't particularly like masturbation and do not find in arousing enough to reach orgasm or ejaculation. Both are normal.

Most often ejaculation and orgasm happen at the same time for men. But it's also true that sometimes men ejaculate without orgasm even if they are greatly aroused. And sometimes they orgasm without ejaculation.

The inability to orgasm from any kind of sex play, including masturbation, is called inhibited orgasm. Certain medications and physical or emotional conditions can also inhibit orgasm. The most common emotional reasons for inhibited orgasm are sexual guilt, shame, performance anxiety, and, when sex play is with another person, anger with the partner. Most of us will experience inhibited orgasm from time to time, and this is also normal.

In general, masturbation is safe and healthy and has no harmful physical or emotional effects. In fact, it has a number of physical and mental health benefits, including releasing stress and physical tension. Women and men who have not ever had an orgasm may take several different sessions to achieve orgasm. Women and men who want to try this should relax and take their time. But masturbation is not for everyone. We are all different, and being different is also normal.

If you are concerned about inhibited orgasm you can consult a urologist or other clinician. Call 1-800-230-PLAN to find a Planned Parenthood health center near you.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.