Dear Mirmle,

In happy and healthy relationships partners try not to hurt each other — even when they get angry. We all get angry sometimes and when we do we have a choice — we can express our feelings in a healthy way or we can hurt someone.

A good relationship is based on respect and love. Only you can decide what is right for you. If what happened was an isolated incident you might want to accept his apology and move on. And you might want to talk with someone you trust to sort out your feelings about it.

But if something like this happens again, it might be a sign that your partner has a serious problem and you should consider talking to someone a little bit more about what is going on in your relationship. If you call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1 800-799-SAFE, they can provide you with a number you can call in your area.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

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