Dear nikky1,

This is a really common question. Having sex is a big decision, and there are many things to think about, including

• your personal values and goals
• your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you are willing to take
• whether you are feeling pressured
• how clear you can be with your partner about what you do and don't want to happen
• what you want out of your relationship

Having sex can be a great experience, but it can also make people feel vulnerable, and they can get hurt. It's important to think about the emotional risks and benefits when making a decision. It's also important to plan how you will protect yourself and your partner from unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections if you choose to have sex.

For more information, check out How Do You Know When You're Ready for Sex?.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.