Dear what_,

It might be most helpful to have a conversation with your mom and let her know that you miss her company. She may not be aware that you're not getting what you need and want. That's why communication is very important in relationships, whether it's with a partner, friend, or family member. You may also want to think about what makes you angry when you are with her and what you might be able to do about that.

Choose a time when your mother doesn't seem too busy or stressed, or ask her when would be best for her to have a talk. You might also want to make plans to do something together. You could go for a walk, go shopping, go to a baseball game, cook something together — something that you both find relaxing. Let her know that you like spending time with her and you'd like to it more often.

Sometimes family counseling can help parents and their children understand how much they mean to one another and how to communicate better with each other.

To find a family counselor in your neighborhood you can ask a trusted school official, clergy person, or health care provider. Your local Planned Parenthood might also be a helpful resource. To find the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you, call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN.

Good luck!

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.