Your Question:
Dear Experts,
i have a question. i am a guy, 16 years old. there is this girls at school who doesn't like me too much. i don't really talk to her. but sometimes when she sees me, she walks up to me, and grabs my testicles. she just laughs at me. i want her to stop but i am embarassed to fight back or to tell somebody. is this considered sexual harassment? what can i do about this?
curiguy, 03.31.05
The Answer:
Dear curiguy,
Yes, this is sexual harassment. In schools, the most common form of sexual harassment is called hostile environment harassment — when someone's sexual advances affect a student's ability to participate in school or school programs. The inappropriate touching that you are experiencing is one example of this type of sexual harassment.
There are several ways people can take action against sexual harassment. You could tell this girl that she is sexually harassing you and that she needs to stop. Or you could talk to a teacher, counselor, principal, or other trusted adult at your school. School officials are legally responsible to take action about your complaint. It's also a good idea to keep track of the incidents — write them down in a journal, or tell a friend who can back you up. Some people take legal action to stop sexual harassment.
Sexual harassment can make people feel embarrassed and powerless, but it is illegal, and it doesn't have to be tolerated. Remember, it is your right to have the harassment stop immediately.
Hope this information helps!
Take care,
teenwire.com® Editors
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