Your Question:
Dear Experts,
I want my boyfriend to touch my boobs and play with them, but I dont want sex and I dont want to have oral sex etc. I just want him to feel my boobs, I want to just tell him to feel them but thats to weird. I want to know how to give him a signal that i want him to.
meow_13, 08.03.04
The Answer:
Dear meow_13,
There's nothing weird about it, even though you may feel that way! Communicating with your partner about what you do and don't want to do sexually is important. It's totally fine to tell your boyfriend, "I want to do X, but I don't want to do Y." No one should do anything she or he isn't comfortable with sexually. Communication is also key in making sex play satisfying. Partners are not mind readers — we often need helpful hints about how to please each other best.
Hope this information helps!
Take care,
teenwire.com® Editors
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