Dear Outmyway,

This is a really common question. Being nervous and concerned about whether or not you're "doing it right" is totally normal. The truth is, the first time a person kisses someone or has sex play with her or him, it can be awkward — just about everyone experiences that at one point or another! There's no "right" way to do something, but things usually go better when partners let each other know what feels good and what doesn't. It's also important for partners to be clear with each other about what they do or don't want to do. Everyone is different, with various likes and dislikes, so communication is key!

Communication is also key when it comes to staying healthy. Having a conversation with your partner about safer sex is important. Remember, only female and latex condoms reduce the risk of pregnancy and infection.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

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