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When I boyfriend are having sex, I make noise and he doesn't. How come?

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Your Question:

Dear Experts,

When me and my guy are doing stuff, like having foreplay, and if we are having outercourse, i always seem to reach orgasm first. I've read something where it says guys reach orgasm first. Is it normal for me to reach orgasm first and then have multiple ones until he has his?

playful123



The Answer:

Dear playful123,

Yes, it's totally normal for a woman to orgasm before a man, and to have multiple orgasms, too. Saying that men reach orgasm first is a generalization. It may be true for some people, but not for everyone. Some guys try to wait to have an orgasm until their partners have one.

There's no one right way for sex play to happen. Some people have many orgasms, some people have one or none at all — and this is all normal. The most important thing is that both people involved feel good about it and are satisfied.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

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