Dear SweetyP,

Shaving is a personal decision. It's very normal for women to have dark or thick hair on their bodies. It doesn't need to be removed unless it really bothers you.

Shaving is not a regular part of some cultures and in others it is more common. Your parents might be from a culture or generation where shaving is not considered a regular or necessary activity. It is also possible that they may think that shaving is an adult activity and that teens should not be worried about body hair.

If you feel very strongly about shaving you might want to try to talk to them about your concerns at a time when nobody feels rushed or distracted. You can explain to them that you feel uncomfortable with some of your body hair, that shaving is not a sign that that you are "growing up too fast." You might also want to ask them to understand how important it is that you feel comfortable with your body and how shaving will help you feel more comfortable.

You might also want to see if there is a compromise that you can work on — maybe they are not comfortable with the idea of shaving, but would be more comfortable with the idea of a hair removal cream or a bleaching process. If this still doesn't work, you could try talking to another adult or older relative you trust for some advice or to talk to your parents with you.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

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