Dear britnaaay,

Yes. It's totally normal for two girls to engage in sex play together. There are many people who are sexually attracted to people of their own gender. Some people choose to act on these feelings and some people don't. Either way, it's totally normal.

Sexual orientation — being lesbian, bisexual, gay, or straight — is about sexual attraction. It can take years to understand our sexual orientation.

So many people, young and older, have questions about their sexual orientation, that there is actually a name for them. Many identify themselves and are identified by others as "questioning."

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

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