Dear hollow69,

Many women — about one out of three — have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal penetration.

Keep in mind, every woman's body responds differently to various kinds of sex play. Each woman has different preferences for the ways in which her clitoris is stimulated. Most women who reach orgasm with a partner have also experienced an orgasm from masturbation. Women who have never had an orgasm may want to try to masturbate to learn what pleases them.

Remember, communication with your partner is very important. Partners are not mind readers. So, partners should be clear about what feels good and what doesn't, and what they like and don't like.

Now, about condoms. First, congratulations to you and your partner for using condoms. When used correctly and consistently, condoms are up to 98 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. And they are the best way to reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections.

All condoms are tested for defects. But, like rubber bands, condoms deteriorate with age. If properly stored, they should stay good until the expiration date printed on the wrapper of each condom.

You can get condoms in drugstores and the pharmacy section of other stores. They also are available in Planned Parenthood health centers and other family planning clinics where they may be less expensive or even free. Call 1-800-230-PLAN to reach the Planned Parenthood nearest you.

Hope this information helps!

Take care,

teenwire.com^® Editors

This column is for informational purposes only and is not intended to constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have a medical problem, please call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN for an appointment with the Planned Parenthood health center nearest you.